My Birthday...

You were born on a Tuesday
under the astrological sign Scorpio.
Your Life path number is 11.

Your fortune cookie reads:
You were born with the skill to communicate with people easily.

Life Path Compatibility:
You are most compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 2, 4, 8, 11 & 22.
You should get along well with those with the Life Path numbers 3 & 6.
You may or may not get along well with those with the Life Path number 9.
You are least compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 1, 5 & 7.

The Julian calendar date of your birth is 2445632.5.
The golden number for 1983 is 8.
The epact number for 1983 is 16.
The year 1983 was not a leap year.

Your birthday falls into the Chinese year beginning 2/13/1983 and ending 2/1/1984.
You were born in the Chinese year of the Pig.

Your Native American Zodiac sign is Snake; your plant is Thistle.

You were born in the Egyptian month of Tyby, the first month of the season of Poret (Emergence - Fertile soil).

Your date of birth on the Hebrew calendar is 18 Heshvan 5744.
Or if you were born after sundown then the date is 19 Heshvan 5744.

The Mayan Calendar long count date of your birthday is 12.18.10.7.8 which is
12 baktun 18 katun 10 tun 7 uinal 8 kin

The Hijra (Islamic Calendar) date of your birth is Tuesday, 18 Muharram 1404 (1404-1-18).

The date of Easter on your birth year was Sunday, 3 April 1983.
The date of Orthodox Easter on your birth year was Sunday, 8 May 1983.
The date of Ash Wednesday (the first day of Lent) on your birth year was Wednesday 16 February 1983.
The date of Whitsun (Pentecost Sunday) in the year of your birth was Sunday 22 May 1983.
The date of Whisuntide in the year of your birth was Sunday 29 May 1983.
The date of Rosh Hashanah in the year of your birth was Thursday, 8 September 1983.
The date of Passover in the year of your birth was Tuesday, 29 March 1983.
The date of Mardi Gras on your birth year was Tuesday 15 February 1983.

As of 10/25/2010 9:31:08 AM EDT
You are 27 years old.
You are 324 months old.
You are 1,409 weeks old.
You are 9,862 days old.
You are 236,697 hours old.
You are 14,201,851 minutes old.
You are 852,111,068 seconds old.

Celebrities who share your birthday:
Ciara (1985) Sara Lumholdt (1984) Tracy Nelson (1963)
Jon Anderson (1944) Helen Reddy (1941) Bobby Knight (1940)
Billy Barty (1924) Minnie Pearl (1912) Leo G. Carroll (1892)
Pablo Picasso (1881) Georges Bizet (1838)

Your age is the equivalent of a dog that is 3.85988258317025 years old. (Life's just a big chewy bone for you!)

Your lucky day is Tuesday.
Your lucky number is 9 & 11.
Your ruling planet(s) is Mars & Pluto.
Your lucky dates are 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th.
Your opposition sign is Taurus.
Your opposition number(s) is 6.

Today is one of your lucky days!

There are 365 days till your next birthday
on which your cake will have 28 candles.

Those 28 candles produce 28 BTUs,
or 7,056 calories of heat (that's only 7.0560 food Calories!) .
You can boil 3.20 US ounces of water with that many candles.

In 1983 there were approximately 3.6 million births in the US.
In 1983 the US population was approximately 226,545,805 people, 64.0 persons per square mile.
In 1983 in the US there were 2,444,000 marriages (10.5%) and 1,179,000 divorces (5%)
In 1983 in the US there were approximately 1,990,000 deaths (8.8 per 1000)
In the US a new person is born approximately every 8 seconds.
In the US one person dies approximately every 12 seconds.

In 1983 the population of Australia was approximately 15,483,496.
In 1983 there were approximately 242,570 births in Australia.
In 1983 in Australia there were approximately 114,860 marriages and 43,525 divorces.
In 1983 in Australia there were approximately 110,084 deaths.

Your birth flower is MARIGOLD

Your birthstone is Tourmaline

The Mystical properties of Tourmaline
Pink Tourmaline promotes female balance and protection. Green Toumaline promotes male balance.

Some lists consider these stones to be your birthstone. (Birthstone lists come from Jewelers, Tibet, Ayurvedic Indian medicine, and other sources)

Opal, Jasper

Your birth tree is Walnut Tree, the Passion: Unrelenting, strange and full of contrasts, often egoistic, aggressive, noble, broad horizon, unexpected reactions, spontaneous, unlimited ambition, no flexibility, difficult and uncommon partner, not always liked but often admired, ingenious strategist, very jealous and passionate, no compromises.

古板、專一的情人

他是完美主義者，對任何事情要求嚴格，他的優點是感情專一，但個性非常古板、固執。感情方面，佔有慾強，易猜疑，若要抓住他外遇出軌的可能性不大，因為他會有很強的自責心，因此他是個專一、可靠的情人。

我就是这样。。。

我就是这样。。。。

# 無法抵擋有才氣的人，最容易栽在才華洋溢、有理想、有抱負但有顆不安定靈魂的人手上，雖然談戀愛時你會發現這型的人通常比較自戀、愛自己比較多、個性比較冷酷、有時候也很自私，但是你卻天真地相信自己可以用愛情融化他，總有一天他會被你感動而安定在你身邊。

# 一旦碰触到感情，天蝎的占有欲与嫉妒心就会迅速膨胀。只要他锁定你，哪怕你们没有确定关系，他对你周围除他之外的异性都充满敌意。就看你是否能接受他的醋劲了。

LIFE

Human life is so short and fragile. What should a human do just can be considered have a perfect life? is career? is high education? is married? is get child? Nobody know. But for me, is HAPPINESS.

For a men, maybe career is the most important in his life. how about love? no values?? if no love, what point you have a very high salary and powerful job? who can share your happiness and sadness?

Human life is so short and fragile. Human must know how to enjoy what they have and treasure what they have as can as possible, just wouldn't regret one day later. Cannot denied that Men have burden and responsibility in life to pursue 5C, pressure from family, friends, lover, and so on. But you willing to sacrifice the happy time?

For a men, we know we should face and feel more realistic. But who want to pursue something without happiness and who don't want to enjoy the life. Maybe only the one who can make a balance between positive and negative, just can get neutral.

Try to enjoy your like, treasure the happiness, don't wait after lost it just regret. Sometime the thing lost wont come again to you.

So start from now, try your best to treasure it and appreciate it. Gambateh...

肺腑之言

看了一位朋友的BLOG让我感同身受。无论是看第一遍或是第二遍，都让我觉得心酸。不是因为我的同情，而是关心。我知道他不喜欢得到别人的同情。我能够明白及体会他的感受。虽然，他在朋友面前装着诺无其事的样子，不想然人知道他脆弱的一面，也不想把自己的情绪加在别人的心上。虽然我很想了解情况，但却不知如何开口，知道他的性格， 他是不会告诉我的。一路而来，都希望自己能成为他的忠实听众， 能听他述说心事， 但还是一而再，再而三的失败， 听到的却是个善意的谎言。我并不介意他在我怀里哭泣，找我倾诉，发牢骚。反而，我会很开心。发生这些事，我会幸灾乐祸吗？渔翁得利？我从来没想过， 我并不希望这种事的发生，因为我始终都希望它能开心，快乐。

单身的心

single = Bujang = 单身

终于， 我又恢复了单身。或许我很早就已经单身， 只是我不想面对现实。我的心太软了，都当成没事。单身，好像还不适应，心还是会痛。

拿出在一个人的心里那寄放已久的心，成了一个孤苦伶仃，无家可归的一颗心，不知东西南北的徘徊着，的确容易叫人崩溃和绝望。或许我做了件好事，掏空了他心里的保险箱，浩然另一颗心寄放。 也许这个保险箱很久前就想把这颗心归还原主，保险箱的主人出于同情心，抱着沉重的压力据续收留那棵没人要的心。

我一直以为，一个保险箱可能收着两颗心，原来我错了，最后还是狠狠地被抛了千里之外，那颗心一直在流血，很痛很痛， 刘了好几晚的泪水。那颗心一直在想，为什么保险箱还有空位，却要把我扔出来呢？我都不计较被挤在另一棵新的后面。为什么保险箱的主人明明说对我有感觉，却还要把我扔出来？他很彷徨，心中出现了好多好多的疑问，没人能解。。。。

安全感

所谓安全感是一种感觉、一种心理；是来自一方的表现所带给另一方的感觉；是一种让人可以放心、可以依靠、可以相信的言谈举止等方面表现带来的。 一段感情缺乏了安全感，就等于失去了快乐， 也缩短了他的保存期， 迎面而来的也就是感情即将结束的症状。

他他他.....

不喜歡懷疑什麼
並不表示我 沒有感受
看你微妙的變化 慢慢不同
我不是生氣 只是心痛
最討厭被誤會了
但越解釋越 覺得難過
你可以說人會變
但不能說 你會這麼做 是我的錯
哭過就好了
傷都會好的
這樣相信所以深呼吸著割捨
愛是為了擁抱　為了牽手
不是為了爭吵　為了調頭
哭過就好了
痛都會走的
記憶有限　所以它會淘汰壞的
失眠聽歌 想念雖然苦澀
還是謝謝你讓我長大了
越多美好堆疊的過往
想忘就得推倒更大的悲傷
要找勇氣卻不在口袋或手上
但它一定在我身上某個地方
哭過就好了
痛都會走的
記憶有限　所以它會淘汰壞的
失眠聽歌　想念雖然苦澀
還是謝謝你讓我長大了

每当我回忆起我们之前的点点滴滴，和一些照片，就会有一股哀伤的情绪。感慨和遗憾着那些美好的时光已逝， 或许这也意味着到了真正放手的时候了吧！虽然有点不舍， 但始终还是要学会放弃，成全他人。虽然如此，我真的不愿失去这位好朋友。虽然他时常说自己不是好人，但在我心中是个乐于助人的好人。他是个很好的人，只是有时不够体贴， 不懂得到底你要什么，想什么。不过,我真得很感谢他愿意对我付出,也帮助过我不少.

或许他已开始就与错了人,遇上一个'那得起,放不下'的人.我并没有后悔遇上他.只是觉得感情的短暂而有点遗憾.有过支前有让你不开心, 生气或压力, 谢谢你对我的耐性和体谅, 我真心地向你道歉,原谅我这无知,不知天高地厚的小孩,别跟他计较.哈哈..

你能找到你真正爱及真正该爱的人,我的确为你感到高兴,我想我能衷心的祝福他,但希望它能改改自我中心的性格,多了解对方的感受, 始终不是每个人都像我一样有耐性(paiseh... hehe) 我不是个好人,是个醋坛子. 原来太在乎一个人会弄巧反拙的.了解...

虽然,悲伤的情绪让人喘不过气,难以忍受,我还是相信,时间能治疗伤口.

快疯了

从昨天到现在，我的脑不停的在想着。。。 感觉就像快要疯掉了。。。 可是他到现在还是没有理我。。。。 为什么都不能对我好一点呢？为什么能对别人好，都不能对我好一点呢？是我对他不够好吗？虽然我应该祝福他，但是我的妒嫉心一只拄绕我。。。。 可能我还会不甘心吧。。。

不该爱的爱

“有时候交谈变得空洞, 沉默却像沟通; 当情人那麽沉重, 当朋友反而轻松; 有时候孤独可以寂寞, 也可以是自由; 能安慰自己的人 比较容易快乐”
这句话是在自我安慰吗？感觉酸酸的，快乐中却带着无数的哀伤。不过，这才是最实际的吧，每个人都该有的心态吧。。。 可是，要做到这点却很难，很伤。

有时，我一直在想，一段没有未来，没有结果的恋爱，无论期间有多幸福，多快乐，多轻松，到了最后，剩下的可能也只有伤害，受伤。感觉上，伤害远远超越快乐，这种恋情值得吗？

当你面前是一段不可能有未来的爱情，你是否会据续？其实，对我而言，这种短暂的恋情，我宁愿不要。当你一投入了感情，就没有回头的余地了。你就得在前方的分叉路做选择。无论做出任何的选择，到最后都会狠狠地插对方的心一刀。

这种爱情又何尝的甜蜜呢？何尝的意义的？“不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有”， 或许只适于没有真正感情的恋情吧！

有时，我在想，既然这种恋情永远都是伤害，为何不如选择不开始，或许痛苦能减少很多。还是选择能看见未来的爱情，才是最实际的。

无论如何，还是要等老天爷的安排吧！